Every single time I come on my blog, feeling like posting something, I always wonder if people actually do read this?
Haha, well if there are, you could drop me a comment on things you would want me to blog about.
If the topic is relevant to me or if I have any opinions on the topic, I will be sure to blog about it!
Moving on, today I will be blogging about relationships.
Well, I am obviously no master in the matter.
(you would know if you followed me on twitter lol)
But recently I saw this statement on tumblr :
"The scary thing about dating is that you are either going to marry that person or break up"
Realistically thinking, the statement is 100% true.
I mean when you date someone the outcome is either : marry him or break up.
It doesn't really matter what kind of a relationship you have.
In the sense that, if it's a serious relationship, you may marry the dude or you guys will break up.
Or if it's just a fling, you may still marry the dude or you guys will break up.
Although, the chances of a break up happening is probably higher for the latter.
However, I think when you are in a relationship, especially at my age (20),
I don't think you should be at all thinking about the statement.
I mean, honestly, you're 20.
Do you really want to be thinking about whether or not you'll marry the next guy you shag?
I believe in living in the moment, and that cannot be truer for relationships.
I mean unless you're like 40 and you're worried about whether or not you will be able to start a family,
then maybe living in the moment is not as applicable and suitable of a motto for you.
Why burden yourself with matters that you should not be worrying about.
I mean when you're 20, you should be worrying about graduating, getting your first class honours, how to get a higher score in flappy bird, what clothes to wear to uni.
Or if you're working, what clothes to wear to work, how to suck up to your boss (lol).
Whether or not you will be marrying the guy you're currently dating, is definitely one of the last few items in your worry list.
If it's meant to be, it will be
So really, just chill about it.
That doesn't mean you go around dating criminals or drug dealers.
Be wary of who you choose to date.
But really, don't be going around looking for a hubby candidate.
You may end up scaring off someone who's real great ;)
So here's my two cents worth.
Hopefully you guys enjoy reading this.
till then, xx!